Let’s
take an actor as an example; most of the time, an actor usually has a different
personality from the role he plays in a movie. It is possible to see an actor
who in real life is a model portrays the image of a notorious gangster in a
movie and vice versa. However, this philosophy in the movie world has been
imported into other spheres of life. But this time around, it is known as
posing. That is, pretending to be what you are not.
The
truth is we are made differently from each other. If you try to compare an identical
twin, you will find out that they have different personalities even though
they have the same morphological features. I‘ve met people who are actually
posers in the way they behave & the interesting thing is that some of them
seem to be making it in life by behaving that way. They are even admired by people.
But in the long run, they always have regrets & being neglected by the same
people that were admiring them.
Here
is my point, being what you are not doesn’t pay any good dividend. Although the
present may look good & pleasing yet, the long term effect is a life of
pain &
